MAYBE IT'S NOT EVERYTHING ELSE.
Maybe It's You.
And that's the best news you'll hear today.
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Early Praise for Maybe It's Me
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"Readers will trust her and be engaged by the book's concise personal anecdotes and digestible content."
—Kirkus Reviews
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"Introducing a methodical framework for reflective practice, Maybe It’s Me is a persuasive leadership guide that encourages fostering accountability and conscious choices."
—Foreword Clarion Reviews
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"Encouraging, propulsive... Indeed, some readers may wish to keep their highlighters handy, as they may find themselves returning to the book as a reference guide."
—Kirkus Reviews
IT'S TIME
Give The World The Best Of
You-Not What's Left Of You.
You've been holding it all together, pushing through, showing up, and
wondering why you can't achieve the relief you crave. Even when you
find a little, it doesn't last. The pressure you feel isn't the problem—it's
the invitation to wake up, realign, and lead differently.
Maybe It’s Me helps you uncover the patterns that keep you stuck in
overdrive and shows you how to make conscious choices that restore
your peace without losing your edge or damaging your relationships.
THIS ISN’T JUST ANOTHER SELF-HELP BOOK.
IT’S A MIRROR, A MAP, AND A MOVEMENT.
you have the title + the trophies.
Why Doesn't it
Feel Like Enough?
From the outside, it looks like you're winning.
But on the inside, it's heavy...
The real source of pressure isn't what's around you-it's what's driving you. The beliefs that made you successful are now the ones keeping you stuck.
Five Self-Sabotaging Beliefs
It's Not Your Workload, It's Your Wiring.
These beliefs create pressure patterns that sit beneath the surface, driving you to over-function, over-carry, and over-give—all while wondering why relief keeps slipping further out of reach.
These beliefs aren't flaws — they're survival strategies. And the good news? You have the power to change them.
Righteousness
You Believe you're right.
Justification
You believe the ends justify the means.
Over-responsibility
You believe you can do it better than others.
Over-helping
You believe you're helping.
Postponement
You Believe it's temporary.
You Don't Have to Lose Your
Edge to Find Your Peace.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
Maybe It's Me isn't about doing more
or caring less—it's about choosing differently. It's about mastering the one thing
you actually can control: yourself.
How do you do it? Making pause-fueled decisions using the 7 Conscious Questions.
Meet the Author
Erika Alessandrini is a coach, facilitator, and author with more than twenty-three years in executive leadership and more than 10,000 hours of coaching. She is on a mission to make peace and satisfaction possible without sacrificing results.
After burning out in corporate life and nearly losing what mattered most, Erika walked away to build a new kind of success —one rooted in clarity, compassion, and conscious choices.
Known for blending candor with compassion, Erika is both a truth-teller and an ally — the kind of guide who will challenge you and champion you in equal measure.
Beyond her professional life, she is a wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and friend. Her family is her motivation, and her faith is her fuel.
36 Strategies.
7 Questions.
1 PAUSE.
TRANSFORMING PRESSURE
INTO PEACE BEGINS HERE
For every conscious question, the book introduces a set of practical, evidence-based strategies (36 in total) that bridge insight and action.
Each chapter pairs reflection and practice, turning awareness into mastery—not someday, but in the middle of real life.
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It's More Than A Book.
Maybe It's Me is a full reading and growth experience, designed
for individuals, groups, and the leaders who facilitate them.
Maybe it's Me | Companion Workbook
Your Personal Companion to Living the Work of Maybe It's Me, One Conscious Choice at a Time.
Each chapter mirrors the book's arc while introducing additional content, original visuals, and the complete Conscious Choice Toolkit (tools not found in the book). The exercises are built to be used repeatedly, not completed once. This is a resource you return to.
What the 116 Page Workbook Includes
Who It's For
Maybe It’s Me | Book Club Facilitator Guide
This full-color guide gives you everything you need to lead a meaningful group experience.
Organized by chapter, each section includes a chapter overview, light coaching moves, facilitator prep, opening and closing scripts, and discussion questions that complement the Participant Guide's prompts. It follows a recommended five-session structure and is flexible enough for facilitators to adapt as their group requires.
For coaches, HR professionals, and team/group leaders. You don't need to be an expert on the material. You need this guide.
Maybe It’s Me | Book Club Participants Guide
A Guided Reading Experience for Leaders Ready to Create Real Change.
This guide is designed for readers moving through Maybe It's Me in a group setting — a workplace book club, a leadership cohort, a peer group, or any circle of people doing honest work together. It deepens the reading experience by turning personal reflection into shared conversation.
Thoughtfully designed and easy to use. It follows a recommended five-session arc, but is flexible enough for groups to adapt the pace, sequence, and depth to fit their own needs.
Maybe It's Me Is More Than A Book
A Complete Ecosystem for
Self-Mastery + Conscious Leadership
Maybe It's Me is more than a book. It's the beginning of a practice. The ecosystem built around it gives you everything you need to move from reading to living the work: free and paid digital assets for immediate access, plus a full suite of printed companions available on Amazon, including the workbook, participant guide, and facilitator guide. Whether you're doing this work alone, with a team, or inside a community, there's a supported path in for you.
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The 7 Conscious Questions train your mind and emotions to collaborate with your outer goals, insead of compete with them.
Because this isn't a motivational idea-it's a practice.
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